Thursday, Oct 1
In Kigali, we stopped to buy more soccer balls for the orphans. While we were in the store, Sherrie mentioned she’d noticed that in the UNICEF school, all the kids shared one drinking cup for the water stored in a jerry can in the classroom - water unfit to drink to begin with, but when multiplied by the germs of 48 children, it becomes a potentially fatal drink, especially for the kids carrying HIV. We determined that we wanted to buy a cup for each of the children at the school. We didn’t buy cups for the kids at the other two schools because they don’t have access to water. Yes, that’s right - 2 of the schools have no water.
So Thursday was spent writing the name of each child and drawing little decorations on the cups in permanent marker. My formula was a bouquet of flowers for the girls and toadstools with a caterpillar for the boys. Everyone knows little girls are sugar & spice and boys are snails & puppy dog tails. ;-)
And then off to our English classes.
Friday, Oct 2
We returned to the UNICEF school to give the kids 2 more soccer balls and their cups. Clara, one of ARDR’s staff, read each child’s name so they could come get their cup. Inside each cup we put a “bon bon” (candy) and one of my little Noah’s Ark cards with the phrase “Imana iguhe umugisha" (God bless you) and a U.S. penny rubber cemented to it. Big success - I just hope the teacher can find a place to store the cups.
Saturday, Oct 3
Another day spent in Kigali. We checked into Chez Lando Hotel, had lunch, and then met the families of several friends from home to deliver items & pick up a few things to return. Then a little shopping, and back to the hotel for some longed-for wifi and Skype time with my hubby whom I miss very much. Oh Joy, there was a hot shower and a flush toilet. Skype is an amazing thing, but the hotel wifi connection was weak so our conversation was a little frustrating. Better than nothing though!
Sunday, Oct 4
We attended St. Peter Anglican Church in Kigali. Once again, the singing was wonderful. I've fallen in love with African hymns & songs. It's going to be hard to return to the smarmy church lady hymns that plague North American churches, but I do miss the chants we use at home. If St Peter is typical, then the Anglican Church in Rwanda is, not surprisingly, "low church" Anglican. Holy Communion was kind of similar to our form, but aside from the General Confession of Sin (no absolution or comfortable words), lessons, recitation of a Creed, homily, and benediction, I couldn't discern any other pattern like ours. There were far fewer prayers, and many informal breaks in the flow of the liturgy. I prefer my home "high church" service, but the service at St. Peter was a good experience.
Sherrie & I sat at the back of the church in an attempt to be inconspicuous (no small feat considering we were the only two buzungu present), but before long an usher came & invited us to sit right up front. LOL - not what I had in mind, but it helped Sherrie film more easily. Then it happened again. We were unexpectedly asked to come introduce ourselves - an example of one of several breaks in the liturgy. Before we spoke, the choir sang a song for us. I think it was probably a song of welcome, but I'm not sure. It wasn't too traumatic with the kind priest standing next to us.
After church, we were invited to sit and talk with the priest for a bit. The Bishop of Kigali was visiting that day, so we were able to meet him as well. But the really big news is that the priest is going to try to arrange a meeting for us with Archbishop Kolini! What a privilege.
Sunday turned out to be quite a day. After church, while we were waiting for a ride, we noticed a little book shop. Inside, I spotted the Primary grammar book the Rwamagana ESL students use. I thought it might be helpful for my ESL students at home, so I asked Laurent to ask the clerk how much it was. Meanwhile, Sherrie found a Kinyarwanda Bible for a reasonable price. Laurent told me the grammar book was 8,000 RWF (about $4) which was very reasonable, but I saw another stack of the same book priced at 7,000 RWF. When I pointed that out, Laurent said something to the clerk, but the clerk made some excuse about the inflated price. That did it for Sherrie. She shot back, "No! That's a muzungu price!" and threw down her Kinyarwanda Bible declaring she'd buy nothing in this store and stormed out. Haha! As that little moment transpired, I shook my head, "No," laid down the grammar, and walked out too. Laurent stayed behind, and the clerk had a Duh moment when he asked if Sherrie were mad. LOL! Dear Laurent chastised the clerk for lying to us and left as well. As it turns out, the clerk was Muslim so that was two strikes against us: white, and Christian. Oh well, his loss.
The rest of the day was a combination of agony & ecstasy. We had been invited to our host's home for dinner Sunday night, but while we were in Kigali Nicole and Laurent wanted to visit family members. The family of Nicole's uncle was our first stop. Her aunt's home is a little stucco-like house with sheet metal roof and concrete floor that's common to Rwanda. Very quaint and homey. Houses in Rwanda, at least the ones I've seen, all have a separate building for the kitchen, and all seem to cook on charcoal stoves. It's very primitive, but the food is wonderful. Nicole's aunt and cousins had prepared a feast. Dish after dish of rice, potatoes, cassava, matoke, sauces, meat, and vegetables were brought to the table, and bottles of Fanta were passed. We tried to take conservative portions of food since we had dinner plans, but it would have been rude to turn down a meal meant to honor guests, It was delicious! After dinner, some formal words were exchanged as is the custom, and we were invited to pray together before leaving.
Next, we set out for the home of Laurent’s brother, Oscar. As we turned off the main road, it was apparent that we were about to do some serious “dancing” - an inside joke about what it’s like to bounce, sway, skitter, and bebop down very steep, narrow, deeply rutted red dirt roads in a jeep - and I use the word road loosely. Houses line these mountain goat trails, and people travel up & down everyday by foot for all their daily business. On our descent to Oscar’s house, a new phrase became a favorite: Mamawe! which is Kinyarwanda for momma mia. We arrived with our previous meal still located somewhere near our stomachs. The view was spectacular. Oscar’s house overlooks a gorgeous valley and hillsides covered with cultivated fields, stands of trees, and homes.
After greeting the family we were ushered inside. The first thing I saw was a chicken perched on a dining room chair. Then I noticed that the house was unfinished. The floor in the dining room wasn’t excavated and was a bumpy surface of rocks & packed earth. If it weren’t for the potential toe stubs & tumbles, I thought it would be pretty cool to leave it the way it was. The house will be beautiful when it’s finished. It was made of the same mud stucco common to Rwanda, but the design elements set it apart as a more affluent dwelling. There was the standard out building for the kitchen and a wonderful covered front porch perfect for enjoying the valley view.
We sat down and accepted yet more Fanta while we visited. Then, much to my horror, the parade of dishes began. Once again, African hospitality could not be refused, and as we feigned starvation we filled our plates with rice, potatoes, matoke, sauces and meat. Momawe! Oy vey, and aye car rumba! It was late afternoon and I had not seen a bathroom since 9:30 AM. I was certain I would explode. And then it began to rain. Deluge to be precise. That precipitous path we had descended was undoubtedly becoming an impassible raging red torrent and we were doomed to sit here and eat for all eternity.
Kidding aside, Oscar’s wife and kids, 4 of whom are genocide orphans they’ve taken in, were completely delightful. When it was time to go, we were again invited to pray together. Oscar particularly asked prayer that God would provide for him to complete his house since his children were still sleeping on the floor.
Our last stop was the home of Jean & Jeanne, our host family. Right after we arrived, the electricity fairy snuffed out the power. I was thankful for the small blessing because by now the dark exhaustion circles under my eyes were as conspicuous as my hospitality-swollen abdomen. Jeanne prepared a beautiful dinner of spicy matoke, rice, meat & sauce, vegetables, batter-fried fish, and homemade doughnuts. I was, by then, comatose.
I have no memory of arriving home. I know I woke up in my own little nest under the mosquito net. I never, ever again want to eat dinner 4 times in a row.
Monday, Oct 5
Today we visited a micro-finance class and saw a field prepared for the rainy season cassava planting, But the memorable part of the day was the drive there and back. We were in a fairly rural area where the square mud & tin roofed houses sometimes gave way to the earlier days of cylindrical mud walled huts with banana thatch roofs. As usual, flowers bloomed everywhere and young children played in front of their homes near the dirt road. That gave us many opportunities to hear squeals of excitement over the passing buzungu ladies who tossed bon bons from the windows of the Jeep. At one point I told Sherrie we were like the Rwandan Mardi Gras. We'd toss candy to the kids and they'd scramble to pick it up. Some would thank us with the now familiar "murakoze," but several times Sherrie & I each received a very special gift: some of the kids would spontaneously say "God bless you!" It's hard to explain what it's like to have a smiling, bright-eyed child ask God's blessing on us, especially when that child is dressed in rags and standing in front of a mud house. I had one very inquisitive little girl, after she told me "God bless you" in English, ask where I came from. She'd never heard of America, so I explained I was from very, very far away across the sea. Many of the kids in this community can't go to school because their parents or guardians can't afford uniforms or books. Unless they can find a way to afford school, they are likely stuck in poverty so extreme it defies imagination. No school, no health care, not even a church within walking distance. The girls will be married to a husband who can pay a good price at a very young age, have babies, and repeat the cycle. Education is their only road out.
In the evening we had our English class. I finally feel as though we have some direction. Too bad it didn't begin to shape up until the last week. I feel there should have been advance communication between us and the local teachers to facilitate preparation for the classes, but, as we've learned, the African way seems to focus primarily on the present. Oh well... no big deal.
Tuesday, Oct 6
Back to one of the orphan schools to drop off 4 more soccer balls. The fun part was handing out our penny cards and bon bons to each child. Such a little thing, but it generates such happiness in the kids. I got lots of smiles, hugs, and hand shakes. It' was funny though... remember the manicure I told you about? Well, you get what you pay for. My nail polish began chipping off after just a few days and by today I was left with little islands of dusty pink polish in the center of each finger nail. I watched many of the kids as they took my hand in theirs. At first they were fascinated by my light skin next to their dark skin, but many of them did a little double take at my finger nails. I'm sure they had no idea what they were seeing and will forever think buzungu have the most curiously spotted nails.
Next, we stopped by the little grotto where the genocide widows weave baskets to sell. After a few more purchases, we photographed each woman and recorded her name. Our plan is to print cards with the photo, name, and brief biography of each widow to attach to the baskets we hope to sell. We'll write some interview questions and have one of ARDR's staff write the answers for each woman. Sherrie & I can then correct the grammar and have the cards printed back home.
Wednesday, Oct 7
Wow! We met Archbishop Kolini today! It speaks volumes about the man that he's willing to take time from his busy schedule to meet two housewives from Ohio. He is an adviser to President Kigame, Archbishop of the Anglican church in Rwanda, and Bishop of the Diocese of Kigali. He travels all over the world, so we were fortunate to find him home. We had coffee and talked for an hour. He's a very humble and gracious man, and has his finger on the pulse of worldwide Anglicanism.
One of our purposes in meeting with Archbishop Kolini was to tell him about our desire to get an African Anglican service started as an adjunct to our regular English service since we have so many African refugees living in our parish. He told us about a Rwandan bishop in Buffalo, N.Y. who might be able to help us.
After our meeting, we did the tourist thing and went shopping. It's amazing how fast word spreads that there are buzungu shopping. When we walked out of the little Rwandan crafts shop, we were mobbed by street vendors. Our hosts tunneled us through the mass of hands waving wares and we escaped. As we reached our car, the next salvo was upon us, this time beggars. The beggars are annoying on one hand, but on the other sad because it's often obvious that they really are needy and may have very little or no means of support other than begging. Women begging with babies tied to their backs are everywhere, but it's impossible to tell if they are legitimate. There is prostitution in Kigali, and it's likely that these are women who beg by day and sell sex at night. I have compassion for them; I'm sure they don't do this by choice and that their lives are miserable, but I'm not inclined to line a pimp's pocket. What a sad situation. More compelling are the crippled and handicapped. Rwanda probably doesn't have infrastructure in place to provide for them, and since the population is so poor, I doubt even churches can adequately provide them with food, clothing and shelter. Our host suggested that, unless someone was handicapped, we not give beggars money. Seems like a good guideline.
It was late & we were way too tired to teach English by the time we got home.
Thursday, Oct. 8
Today was a day to rest, do laundry, and go to the internet cafe. Unfortunately, the dial-up service was down, and then later the power went off. No internet - no email from my hubby and no way to let him know all is well. I don't like this at all.
We had storms again in the evening. The rainy season is beginning, but still no running water. No one came to take us to English class, so it was a slow day. In the evening, Nicole's birth mother and sister, who had traveled by bus from Kenya, came to our house. Nicole was separated from her mother as a toddler when her mother was kidnapped by Congolese rebel forces. Her father, thinking his wife was dead, remarried and, from refugee camps in Burundi, was resettled with his children in the U.S.. Nicole was meeting her mother for the first time, so Sherrie & I retired to our rooms.
Friday, Oct 9
We visited ARDR's functional literacy project. The class is composed of women who never had a chance to go to school. They meet in a partially completed mud brick building without doors. The black board is borrowed from a primary school, and the women sit on mud bricks on the dirt floor. Some of them are genocide orphans, and one is confirmed HIV positive. All of them want to learn and have hopes for a better future. We are nearing the end of our time in Rwanda, and still I can barely wrap my mind around the magnitude of the need here. And this is just one district within one Province in all of Rwanda, and Rwanda is just one country in Africa, and Africa is just one continent in a world full of continents, countries, districts, towns, and people in desperate need.
We had our last English class this evening. The regular teacher, Bob, talked a bit about how thankful they were for our visit and for our hope to continue to support ARDR's work. It was kind of overwhelming because, as he talked, I was again struck by the enormity of the need. Sherrie and I are just two women, What can we do? But that isn't the real question. The real question, or more properly, the real anticipation, is for what God will do.
I wasn't yet prepared for the "good-bye" part of our trip to begin, so when Bob prayed for us and each student gave us a hug & a few words of thanks, I started to leak from the eyes again. I'm ready to go home. I miss my husband terribly. I need a purring cat in my lap, and I'm even looking forward to my dog panting his hot breath in my face, but I'm not ready to say goodbye to Rwanda. I know part of my heart is going to stay here.
Saturday, Oct 10
Today is an ARDR board meeting. Sherrie & I will be attending, but I'm not sure why exactly. We won't understand any of what's said. Afterward, we've been promised a driver so we can see some scenery and have time to stop for photos. We've been kept so on the move that we've missed capturing far too many things. A little internet time would be great, but that's beyond my control. Tomorrow we will attend the Anglican Church in Rwamagana and have lunch near a lake as a last get together before Laurent leaves for Burundi on Monday. Monday will probably be spent packing up, and Tuesday we head for home. None of us are looking forward to the 5 + hour lay over in Brussels. It will be a shock after 3 weeks in a place as friendly & unpresumptuous as Rwanda.
Saturday, October 10, 2009
Thursday, October 1, 2009
Rwanda, week 2A
Monday, Sept 28
We visited two field locations today. Our first stop was the sewing school. As we have found so many times already, the students were crammed into a small, dimly lit space with too few machines for the class size, and that’s in spite of several rotating classes. The machines are old fashioned black, peddle operated Singers like women used in the early 1900’s. Since electricity isn’t available everywhere and is often out for an extended time even where it is available, these machines are practical for basic sewing. The girls in the class seemed to be between 18 and 22, some had children, and some were the head of their households taking care of younger siblings. Their dream is to graduate, start a sewing co-op and be able to hire a teacher from their profits to teach their pre-school children while they work. We will be giving them the sewing machines we bought to help that dream come true. To those of you who donated money to my walk-a-thon this summer, my sincerest thanks. May God bless you for the hope you have given these girls. I’ll post pictures - probably once I’m home.
Our next stop was to visit the genocide widows who make baskets to sell to support their families. They sit on mats in a small grotto under trees weaving grasses they’ve harvested and dyed. The baskets have colorful designs and are well constructed, even though the women were apologizing because, to them, the quality of the grass material was inferior due to a dry spell. The women hope to be able to market their baskets, and we think the baskets would be well received in America. We’ve been brainstorming… Meanwhile, the women need a sheltered place to work where they can store their materials. The weather in Rwanda is mild, but the women could work through the rainy season and more efficiently with a shelter.
Home for a rest, and then off to English class. We’ve been tossed in with little direction. Time to improvise! It would really help to have access to the wealth of material available on the internet. Maybe before too many more classes, we’ll have to make an internet café a priority stop during our busy day
Tuesday, Sept 29.
We spent the day in Rwanda’s capital, Kigali, a sprawling mixture of ultra modern offices and shopping plazas, side street markets, and slums (like any city, except distinctly African in flavor). The city is crowded with people of all stripes - professionals, students, street vendors, shoppers, tourists, and beggars. As we were waiting in the car for Laurent and Jean who were running a quick errand, an old woman approached hoping to sell what appeared to be sets of woven trivets for hot plates. She was asking a high price, but tender-hearted Sherrie offered to buy one out of the set for a lower price. The woman agreed, but as she was taking apart the string binding them together, a small stampede of people began to run past. The woman tossed the trivets into our car and ran with them. It turned out that street vending is illegal and the stampede was and effort to evade arrest by a passing policeman. The old woman returned to our car, claimed her money & trivets, and vanished.
Earlier in the day, we visited the genocide memorial. That was a difficult experience. Most of the memorial was dedicated to the genocide in Rwanda, giving the history of the decades-long build up of hostility & propaganda to dehumanize the Tutsi and then documenting the 100 day nightmare beginning in April of 1994 that cost a million lives. There were heart rending videos of people telling their stories, and thousands of photos of victims. A section of the memorial covered many other modern day genocides, and if the cumulative effect of all that wasn’t enough, the last stop at the memorial was a room dedicated to the child victims. Enlarged photos of little children with short biographical details like their favorite foods, personality traits, favorite activities, little descriptions like “Daddy’s girl,” and then, how they died: hacked by machete, burned to death inside a church, dashed against a wall… I was holding it together pretty well until we got to that room. Thousands of people are buried in mass graves at the memorial. We were all very quiet afterward.
Wednesday, Sept 30
The half way mark. I can hardly believe it.
Today we were visited by two monkeys. The first came to the front of the house and perched on the gazebo. I wanted it to stay for a picture, so I tossed a banana into the courtyard. It wasted no time retrieving the prize and sat down to eat. When it was finished, it calmly walked over to sit near us. Then I did something stupid… don’t tell my physician who warned me to avoid contact with animals. I simply could not resist - I handed the monkey a banana. Then I handed it another. It was a very polite monkey. No sudden moves, no grabbing. It quietly reached out and took the bananas. A short time later a second monkey of a different kind came. It got bananas too, but kept its distance. I imagine the banana buffet is being broadcast on the monkey grapevine tonight, and tomorrow every monkey in Rwamagana will be dropping in for breakfast. Good thing bananas are cheap here!
After the monkeyshines, we headed out to the field to deliver the sewing machines and goats we bought. This was the most moving, yet difficult thing so far. We picked up 3 old-fashioned, peddle operated table mounted sewing machines and set out for the sewing school we’d visited on Monday. The bumpy ride damaged the flimsy wood housing the machines, but the machines themselves were fine. The girls gathered around as their instructor, and older gentleman who is also a pastor, set up one of the machines. He began peddling and the belts, wheels, spool, bobbin, and needle whirred out a line of stitching just as they should earning a thumbs up to declare to all that it was a good machine. The girls told us these machines were the key to their futures as well as those of their children and siblings. It was obvious to us that they still need more machines and a larger space for the school, as well as a suitable building to set up the shop and preschool they dream about. Pictures will follow when I am able, and again, my heart-felt thanks to all of you who helped make this possible.
The community was asked to choose the poorest of the widows to receive the goats we purchased. Ten women were selected - the poorest of the poor - and they gathered around so we could meet them and talk. As I sit here attempting to write, I cannot find the right words to convey the destitution of these women, but it’s even harder to try to capture their simple, beautiful faith that God had not forgotten them, that He heard their cry and answered, and their confident hope that the future would be better because of these goats. One woman explained that her son had to quit school because she couldn’t afford the fee, as small as it is, but that she could now sell one of the kids her goat would produce and her son could return to school. All the women quietly expressed their gratitude, and it was clear that, even though we brought the goats, they all understood them to be gifts from God. As I promised all of you who donated money for goats, I told the women through an interpreter, that the goats were purchased by their brothers and sisters in Christ, with love, from America. To those who bought goats, thank you so very, very much. Pictures will follow.
After we were finished talking with the widows, we visited two of their homes. I’m not even going to try to explain what I saw. I have pictures so you will see too. As I waited for sleep the night of our visit, I couldn’t help but wonder what it was like to walk 5 miles each day up & down steep hills for contaminated water, and then carry it back home another 5 miles, cook a pot of beans over a charcoal fire in a 4 foot tall grass hut, and then lie down to sleep with my children in pitch black darkness under a leaky banana thatch roof, on a single banana thatch mat on a dirt floor while malaria and yellow fever bearing mosquitoes buzzed in my ears.
I’m staying in a house with little electricity, no running water, a refrigerator that’s as reliable as the electricity, an old foam mattress, an out door kitchen with a charcoal stove, and a toilet that we pour our hand wash laundry & bath water down to flush. I have a mosquito net, fresh food, bottled water, and hot water to sponge bathe in each day. I am incomprehendably rich.
Thursday, Oct 1
When we were in Kigali, we bought more soccer balls for the orphans and drinking cups for the one school that has water (two of the schools have no source of water). We bought the cups because all the students share one cup for water - not a good idea when some of the kids are HIV positive. Not only is there a slight risk of transmitting HIV, but a cold or flu could be devastating to the HIV infected child.
Today we used permanent markers to write the names of each child and draw some decorative pictures on the cups. Tomorrow we'll pass out the cups along with a piece of candy and a card with an American penny attached. Should be fun.
We'll be spending the night in a Kigali hotel Saturday. Wow... am I ever looking forward to a hot shower & wifi for a night. ;-) Sunday morning we'll attend a Kinyarwanda Anglican service. Can't wait.
We visited two field locations today. Our first stop was the sewing school. As we have found so many times already, the students were crammed into a small, dimly lit space with too few machines for the class size, and that’s in spite of several rotating classes. The machines are old fashioned black, peddle operated Singers like women used in the early 1900’s. Since electricity isn’t available everywhere and is often out for an extended time even where it is available, these machines are practical for basic sewing. The girls in the class seemed to be between 18 and 22, some had children, and some were the head of their households taking care of younger siblings. Their dream is to graduate, start a sewing co-op and be able to hire a teacher from their profits to teach their pre-school children while they work. We will be giving them the sewing machines we bought to help that dream come true. To those of you who donated money to my walk-a-thon this summer, my sincerest thanks. May God bless you for the hope you have given these girls. I’ll post pictures - probably once I’m home.
Our next stop was to visit the genocide widows who make baskets to sell to support their families. They sit on mats in a small grotto under trees weaving grasses they’ve harvested and dyed. The baskets have colorful designs and are well constructed, even though the women were apologizing because, to them, the quality of the grass material was inferior due to a dry spell. The women hope to be able to market their baskets, and we think the baskets would be well received in America. We’ve been brainstorming… Meanwhile, the women need a sheltered place to work where they can store their materials. The weather in Rwanda is mild, but the women could work through the rainy season and more efficiently with a shelter.
Home for a rest, and then off to English class. We’ve been tossed in with little direction. Time to improvise! It would really help to have access to the wealth of material available on the internet. Maybe before too many more classes, we’ll have to make an internet café a priority stop during our busy day
Tuesday, Sept 29.
We spent the day in Rwanda’s capital, Kigali, a sprawling mixture of ultra modern offices and shopping plazas, side street markets, and slums (like any city, except distinctly African in flavor). The city is crowded with people of all stripes - professionals, students, street vendors, shoppers, tourists, and beggars. As we were waiting in the car for Laurent and Jean who were running a quick errand, an old woman approached hoping to sell what appeared to be sets of woven trivets for hot plates. She was asking a high price, but tender-hearted Sherrie offered to buy one out of the set for a lower price. The woman agreed, but as she was taking apart the string binding them together, a small stampede of people began to run past. The woman tossed the trivets into our car and ran with them. It turned out that street vending is illegal and the stampede was and effort to evade arrest by a passing policeman. The old woman returned to our car, claimed her money & trivets, and vanished.
Earlier in the day, we visited the genocide memorial. That was a difficult experience. Most of the memorial was dedicated to the genocide in Rwanda, giving the history of the decades-long build up of hostility & propaganda to dehumanize the Tutsi and then documenting the 100 day nightmare beginning in April of 1994 that cost a million lives. There were heart rending videos of people telling their stories, and thousands of photos of victims. A section of the memorial covered many other modern day genocides, and if the cumulative effect of all that wasn’t enough, the last stop at the memorial was a room dedicated to the child victims. Enlarged photos of little children with short biographical details like their favorite foods, personality traits, favorite activities, little descriptions like “Daddy’s girl,” and then, how they died: hacked by machete, burned to death inside a church, dashed against a wall… I was holding it together pretty well until we got to that room. Thousands of people are buried in mass graves at the memorial. We were all very quiet afterward.
Wednesday, Sept 30
The half way mark. I can hardly believe it.
Today we were visited by two monkeys. The first came to the front of the house and perched on the gazebo. I wanted it to stay for a picture, so I tossed a banana into the courtyard. It wasted no time retrieving the prize and sat down to eat. When it was finished, it calmly walked over to sit near us. Then I did something stupid… don’t tell my physician who warned me to avoid contact with animals. I simply could not resist - I handed the monkey a banana. Then I handed it another. It was a very polite monkey. No sudden moves, no grabbing. It quietly reached out and took the bananas. A short time later a second monkey of a different kind came. It got bananas too, but kept its distance. I imagine the banana buffet is being broadcast on the monkey grapevine tonight, and tomorrow every monkey in Rwamagana will be dropping in for breakfast. Good thing bananas are cheap here!
After the monkeyshines, we headed out to the field to deliver the sewing machines and goats we bought. This was the most moving, yet difficult thing so far. We picked up 3 old-fashioned, peddle operated table mounted sewing machines and set out for the sewing school we’d visited on Monday. The bumpy ride damaged the flimsy wood housing the machines, but the machines themselves were fine. The girls gathered around as their instructor, and older gentleman who is also a pastor, set up one of the machines. He began peddling and the belts, wheels, spool, bobbin, and needle whirred out a line of stitching just as they should earning a thumbs up to declare to all that it was a good machine. The girls told us these machines were the key to their futures as well as those of their children and siblings. It was obvious to us that they still need more machines and a larger space for the school, as well as a suitable building to set up the shop and preschool they dream about. Pictures will follow when I am able, and again, my heart-felt thanks to all of you who helped make this possible.
The community was asked to choose the poorest of the widows to receive the goats we purchased. Ten women were selected - the poorest of the poor - and they gathered around so we could meet them and talk. As I sit here attempting to write, I cannot find the right words to convey the destitution of these women, but it’s even harder to try to capture their simple, beautiful faith that God had not forgotten them, that He heard their cry and answered, and their confident hope that the future would be better because of these goats. One woman explained that her son had to quit school because she couldn’t afford the fee, as small as it is, but that she could now sell one of the kids her goat would produce and her son could return to school. All the women quietly expressed their gratitude, and it was clear that, even though we brought the goats, they all understood them to be gifts from God. As I promised all of you who donated money for goats, I told the women through an interpreter, that the goats were purchased by their brothers and sisters in Christ, with love, from America. To those who bought goats, thank you so very, very much. Pictures will follow.
After we were finished talking with the widows, we visited two of their homes. I’m not even going to try to explain what I saw. I have pictures so you will see too. As I waited for sleep the night of our visit, I couldn’t help but wonder what it was like to walk 5 miles each day up & down steep hills for contaminated water, and then carry it back home another 5 miles, cook a pot of beans over a charcoal fire in a 4 foot tall grass hut, and then lie down to sleep with my children in pitch black darkness under a leaky banana thatch roof, on a single banana thatch mat on a dirt floor while malaria and yellow fever bearing mosquitoes buzzed in my ears.
I’m staying in a house with little electricity, no running water, a refrigerator that’s as reliable as the electricity, an old foam mattress, an out door kitchen with a charcoal stove, and a toilet that we pour our hand wash laundry & bath water down to flush. I have a mosquito net, fresh food, bottled water, and hot water to sponge bathe in each day. I am incomprehendably rich.
Thursday, Oct 1
When we were in Kigali, we bought more soccer balls for the orphans and drinking cups for the one school that has water (two of the schools have no source of water). We bought the cups because all the students share one cup for water - not a good idea when some of the kids are HIV positive. Not only is there a slight risk of transmitting HIV, but a cold or flu could be devastating to the HIV infected child.
Today we used permanent markers to write the names of each child and draw some decorative pictures on the cups. Tomorrow we'll pass out the cups along with a piece of candy and a card with an American penny attached. Should be fun.
We'll be spending the night in a Kigali hotel Saturday. Wow... am I ever looking forward to a hot shower & wifi for a night. ;-) Sunday morning we'll attend a Kinyarwanda Anglican service. Can't wait.
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Rwanda, week 1
Tues, Sept 21
We arrived after a very long, 25 hour trip. The trip itself was uneventful, except in Brussels when baggage inspectors debated about taking away the large stained glass gift cross I had packed in my carry on luggage to keep safe from loss... They must have thought I might whip it out mid flight & bludgeon someone, or perhaps that the composite matrix material was explosives.
Jean & Laurent's family gave us a very warm welcome at the airport and each of us was given a small peace basket in which our names had been woven along with the message "Welcome to Rwanda." Upon arriving at our rented house, I saw that Angelique, our cook, had set the dining room table in silver service for dinner, I wasn't hungry, but that proved to be no obstacle to enjoying my first taste of authentic African food. Fresh chicken in a savory sauce, rice, spinach with something unknown but delicious mixed in, and "chips" or fried potatoes, fresh, locally grown avocado, and bananas for desert.
I turned in around 11 PM local time (6 PM at home) to the horrible sound of what must have been a puppy being eaten alive by a pack of dogs, and slept like the dead until sometime around 3 AM when I was awakened by more dogs.
Wed, Sept 22
(It's 4 AM Thurs. The baby in the room next door is fussy, probably because he's ready to be awake and play. There is a lone dog outside barking its fool head off. I've been asleep since 8 PM, so I'm ready to be awake too, but I should try to sleep some more so I can get my internal clock set to Rwanda time.)
I saw Rwamagana for the first time today. Jean came to the house early - around 8 AM. None of us were quite dressed yet, though we'd been up for a long time. Because it was the first morning, getting myself ready was a little chaotic. I can't really unpack because there is no closet, so it's hard to find things quickly. I'm still trying to figure out how to get things done efficiently. One bathroom between four people is an adjustment, but we'll get it figured out. I have no electrical outlet in my room - that works, anyway - but there is an empty room that has one. It's a good place to pass the curling iron through my hair and iron the wrinkles from my clothes. I may begin brushing my teeth & washing my face at the outside sink if Angelique doesn't mind. The bathroom sink is miniature & overshadowed by a shelf, so it's impossible to get my face over the bowl to rinse. Of course, we have no running water most of the time so washing at all is a treat.
We went to the ARDR office to meet the staff. What sweet, considerate people! I'm pretty overwhelmed by how kind & friendly nearly everyone is, including strangers on the street. Not all of the staff were there today. We met Rose, Clara, and Laurent. The three of them took us on a walking tour of Rwamagana. It's completely different from anything I've seen before. Hard packed red dirt roads & paths, squat buildings, some of which are painted in bright colors, and others made of beautiful rustic brick or perhaps mud. (I hear the Imam calling Muslims to prayer it's - 4:30. I hate Islam, but I must admit, the chant is beautiful.) People everywhere and not a car in sight. People everywhere walking, people congregating, people hauling produce to the market. They all stare at us. I was called muzungu for the first time today by a little boy. It was cute. I was told "Good morning, Sir" by another little boy as I walked by on a path past a school playground. With a smile, I gently corrected, Good morning, ma'am" and as I continued walking to keep pace with my friends, I heard him call after me, Good morning, Madame!" I smiled & waved.
The market was amazing. Wall to wall people with their wares set up on tables, some under a large barn-like building and others in the open air. There were all kinds of produce and foods I have no clue about. I'll try to learn more later. Used clothing, bright, hand dyed fabrics, nails, and almost any scavenged thing one can imagine. One very sad incident overshadowed the market trip: a young woman whose face had been terribly disfigured by burns furtively darted into a corner and peered at us intently as we bought water in one of the shops. It was upsetting, but apparently she is known around town and maybe someone helps her survive.
We bought woven earrings in bright colors, and some hand dyed fabric. We'll go back tomorrow to be measured to have dresses made. I don't know what style I want yet.
We returned home, tired again, to another amazing dinner. Cassava with beef and sauce, baked bananas with carrots & seasonings that was sooo good, macaroni & cheese (!), the obligatory avocado - the best avocado I've ever had - and sliced fresh pineapple. Yum. I hope all the walking will compensate for the large meals we're served.
The afternoon nap was followed by our first visit to the English class where we met Godfrey, the teacher. He was lecturing his students on the rules of debate. I assume he's going to have them hold a mock debate to practice English. Good idea for a more advanced class. I'll be curious to see if these students actually kept up with his rapid fire technique.
No electricity upon our return home. No water either. It's going to be interesting!
Thurs, Sept 23
Running water & electricity are more often off than on, but it's amazing how easy it is to adapt and make do. I continue to wake just before the 4:30 AM to the incessant barking of feral dogs followed by the Islamic call to prayer.
Today we visited three orphan schools. They are scattered through the country side in locations accessible to clusters of foster families who have taken the children in. The families receive very little, if any, compensation for sheltering the children. Rwanda has approximately 600,000 orphans due to the genocide and HIV which is rampant due to the use of rape as a weapon of war.
We traveled steep, rutted, red dirt roads lined with wild flowers. Flowers grow everywhere. Perhaps they are God's way of redeeming the blood-soaked ground. Geraniums & Verbena seem to be common, along with Clematis, Vinca, Poinsettia, and other garden store varieties we see back home. The first orphanage was next door to a genocide memorial. This very rural cemetery/memorial consisted of a single mass grave containing 1,000 bodies. It was covered by a concrete top, and wilting bouquets were scattered around it. The school building was constructed of the common packed mud ball material with several shuttered windows and a sky light. There was no electricity. About twenty young primary-aged children sat crammed like sardines behind two rows of rough-hewn wooden benches with writing tables. They desperately need more benches, but there isn't enough money to have the local craftsman build them. They had little notebooks which had each been carefully torn in half to make twice as many. They were so well behaved, but obviously excited to see us. We received a greeting in English along with a little conversation and a song about Jesus. Then it was time give our gifts. We took them outside and tossed little soccer balls to them and passed out jump ropes. The soccer balls were an immediate success, but the kids were unsure about what to do with jump ropes. After a few demonstrations by adults and lots of coaxing, the kids caught on and were jumping away. We brought both short individual ropes and long ropes. It would be fun to come back in a year to see if they have developed the intricate jump rope dances we played as kids. After awhile we gave them boxes of crayons, more little notebooks, and some work books for math and writing. Saying good bye was hard. These kids are so sweet and eager to learn, but most of them will not be able to continue with school once they are past this charitable primary education provided by our host organization, ARDR.
We continued to the next school. This one was better off, having been built & supplied by UNICEF. They still had only the basics, so our gifts of soccer balls, jump ropes, crayons, and workbooks were appreciated. The third school was held in the bare sanctuary of a large church. As we walked in to the dim space, we passed a young boy laying on a grass mat on the cold concrete floor. He had vomited, and appeared very sick. No help was available for him. No school nurse to keep him comfortable, no call to mom to come pick him up. No doctor to give him medicine.
The rest of the class sat in a group in the center of the sanctuary. They didn't have desks. There was a blackboard at the front, and this is where their lessons were done. In another small building nearby was a second class. Dirt floors, no light, no desks, more of the same. Again, gifts of balls, jump ropes, crayons, workbooks. Each time, all the kids wanted to be touched, hugged, talked to, loved. And it was so hard to say goodbye.
After this last visit, the pastor of the church that housed the school wanted to pray with us. His prayer, as others I'd heard, started with thanks to God for "still surviving." Heartbreaking. He offered the most beautiful prayer of thanksgiving for us, for the gifts we brought, and for the love we had for Rwanda. It left me in tears, not happy tears, but deeply sad & embarrassed tears because we had done next to nothing. What are a few soccer balls & crayons when these kids have virtually nothing? The poorest children in America are rich compared to them. They do, however, have one thing that many American kids don't: faith in God who loves them, and the joy that faith brings even in the face of such suffering.
In the evening we visited another English class, this one taught by "Bob." Bob is from Uganda and was given his nick name by an American friend while he was living in Iran. I hope to find out more of that story. Bob was instantly likeable. Our class time was spent introducing ourselves and then it was time to go. Jean didn't want us to walk home in the dark.
Friday, Sept 24
Today was quiet. We spent time talking with Jean about our agenda and brainstormed ways to raise funds to help ARDR's work continue. So much need, but everything requires funding first. We stopped by an internet cafe, and then later in the afternoon returned to Bob's English class.
Saturday, Sept 25
Jean and his staff are very busy preparing for tomorrow's celebration of Laurent's return home with his bride, Nicole, and baby son, Grant. It will be a feast that will include a freshly slaughtered cow for the wedding party. We won't be visiting the field today.
Jean's wife, Janine, took us to the seamstress' shop to pick up our dresses. Sherrie's dress fit well & was beautiful, but mine was a bit snug in the shoulders. No problem - the seamstress took it apart and adjusted it on her peddle machine while we waited and visited. Everyone that came into the shop was a friend, and conversation was lively and full of laughter. Afterwards, we 4 women went to the beauty salon where Nicole had her hair done and the rest of us had manicures and pedicures. If any of you have seen the movie Steel Magnolias, you should have no problem imagining the atmosphere of the shop. It was very small and dimly lit, but lively. A TV/DVD player stood in one corner playing wonderful Christian reggae. There were three stations with women having their hair done by the stylist who moved from chair to chair while her assistants supplemented. While Sherrie & I had manicures the power went out. The manicurists took it in stride producing flashlights to continue filing and polishing all the while bantering and laughing. My manicure & pedicure cost $2 American. The same at home would have cost $40.
Sunday Sept 26
Today was our first African worship service at the church Laurent attended when he lived here in Rwamagana. It was large a non-denominational evangelical church packed with about 1,000 people. Banners hung from high on the walls. There was a large stage area, and the choir was already singing when we arrived. It will be impossible to describe how amazing the music was. No sing-song, sappy, bustle & bonnet, sentimental "church lady" music there (the 19th century virtually ruined hymnody and should be banned). What we heard was lively, joyful, music with a reggae-like beat and tight, natural African harmony. The singers moved as they sang, usually in unison, and the effect left my eyes leaking for the beauty of it. They sang Amazing Grace and even it was somehow given new life. I enjoyed singing along in English from memory.
Sherrie, Nicole, and I were each invited to speak for a few minutes giving whatever little introduction of ourselves we wanted. It was far less intimidating than I thought it would be, but I'm still glad that part is over. ;-) There was time spent by the Bishop who oversees the cluster of local churches thanking Laurent for his years of service to the church before he moved away. Laurent preached a short sermon, there was more music, and the service was over. Not what I'm used to, but good - especially the music. A friend of Laurent, Elisa, was invited to sit with us to interpret, and as it turned out, he is an Anglican. He invited us to visit his church in Kigali which we intend to do, God willing. He thought Sherrie would be allowed to film the service. I hope so!
After church, we walked across the road to the ARDR compound where tents and chairs had been set up for the long delayed wedding celebration for Laurent & Nicole. Nicole looked absolutely gorgeous in a traditional African dress of patterned silk tied over one shoulder with a matching undergarment called a Umukenyero. Sherrie & I were surprised to be seated at the head table with the bride & groom. Music and speeches followed a delicious dinner. Traditional African dancers performed and Sherrie & I were honored (and embarrassed, I might add, speaking for myself) to be pulled up front to join the dance. We tried, but buzungu (pl. of muzungu), as everyone knows, can't dance. It's traditional in Rwanda, when one wants to honor someone, to give a cow as a gift. Laurent & his family received 3 cows from various family & friends. I wonder if customs will have a problem with them. ;-)
I fell asleep at 5PM and slept soundly until 2:30 AM - 9 hours of consecutive sleep for the first time in a week. I was awakened again by the barking of a feral dog and the Islamic call to prayer.
We arrived after a very long, 25 hour trip. The trip itself was uneventful, except in Brussels when baggage inspectors debated about taking away the large stained glass gift cross I had packed in my carry on luggage to keep safe from loss... They must have thought I might whip it out mid flight & bludgeon someone, or perhaps that the composite matrix material was explosives.
Jean & Laurent's family gave us a very warm welcome at the airport and each of us was given a small peace basket in which our names had been woven along with the message "Welcome to Rwanda." Upon arriving at our rented house, I saw that Angelique, our cook, had set the dining room table in silver service for dinner, I wasn't hungry, but that proved to be no obstacle to enjoying my first taste of authentic African food. Fresh chicken in a savory sauce, rice, spinach with something unknown but delicious mixed in, and "chips" or fried potatoes, fresh, locally grown avocado, and bananas for desert.
I turned in around 11 PM local time (6 PM at home) to the horrible sound of what must have been a puppy being eaten alive by a pack of dogs, and slept like the dead until sometime around 3 AM when I was awakened by more dogs.
Wed, Sept 22
(It's 4 AM Thurs. The baby in the room next door is fussy, probably because he's ready to be awake and play. There is a lone dog outside barking its fool head off. I've been asleep since 8 PM, so I'm ready to be awake too, but I should try to sleep some more so I can get my internal clock set to Rwanda time.)
I saw Rwamagana for the first time today. Jean came to the house early - around 8 AM. None of us were quite dressed yet, though we'd been up for a long time. Because it was the first morning, getting myself ready was a little chaotic. I can't really unpack because there is no closet, so it's hard to find things quickly. I'm still trying to figure out how to get things done efficiently. One bathroom between four people is an adjustment, but we'll get it figured out. I have no electrical outlet in my room - that works, anyway - but there is an empty room that has one. It's a good place to pass the curling iron through my hair and iron the wrinkles from my clothes. I may begin brushing my teeth & washing my face at the outside sink if Angelique doesn't mind. The bathroom sink is miniature & overshadowed by a shelf, so it's impossible to get my face over the bowl to rinse. Of course, we have no running water most of the time so washing at all is a treat.
We went to the ARDR office to meet the staff. What sweet, considerate people! I'm pretty overwhelmed by how kind & friendly nearly everyone is, including strangers on the street. Not all of the staff were there today. We met Rose, Clara, and Laurent. The three of them took us on a walking tour of Rwamagana. It's completely different from anything I've seen before. Hard packed red dirt roads & paths, squat buildings, some of which are painted in bright colors, and others made of beautiful rustic brick or perhaps mud. (I hear the Imam calling Muslims to prayer it's - 4:30. I hate Islam, but I must admit, the chant is beautiful.) People everywhere and not a car in sight. People everywhere walking, people congregating, people hauling produce to the market. They all stare at us. I was called muzungu for the first time today by a little boy. It was cute. I was told "Good morning, Sir" by another little boy as I walked by on a path past a school playground. With a smile, I gently corrected, Good morning, ma'am" and as I continued walking to keep pace with my friends, I heard him call after me, Good morning, Madame!" I smiled & waved.
The market was amazing. Wall to wall people with their wares set up on tables, some under a large barn-like building and others in the open air. There were all kinds of produce and foods I have no clue about. I'll try to learn more later. Used clothing, bright, hand dyed fabrics, nails, and almost any scavenged thing one can imagine. One very sad incident overshadowed the market trip: a young woman whose face had been terribly disfigured by burns furtively darted into a corner and peered at us intently as we bought water in one of the shops. It was upsetting, but apparently she is known around town and maybe someone helps her survive.
We bought woven earrings in bright colors, and some hand dyed fabric. We'll go back tomorrow to be measured to have dresses made. I don't know what style I want yet.
We returned home, tired again, to another amazing dinner. Cassava with beef and sauce, baked bananas with carrots & seasonings that was sooo good, macaroni & cheese (!), the obligatory avocado - the best avocado I've ever had - and sliced fresh pineapple. Yum. I hope all the walking will compensate for the large meals we're served.
The afternoon nap was followed by our first visit to the English class where we met Godfrey, the teacher. He was lecturing his students on the rules of debate. I assume he's going to have them hold a mock debate to practice English. Good idea for a more advanced class. I'll be curious to see if these students actually kept up with his rapid fire technique.
No electricity upon our return home. No water either. It's going to be interesting!
Thurs, Sept 23
Running water & electricity are more often off than on, but it's amazing how easy it is to adapt and make do. I continue to wake just before the 4:30 AM to the incessant barking of feral dogs followed by the Islamic call to prayer.
Today we visited three orphan schools. They are scattered through the country side in locations accessible to clusters of foster families who have taken the children in. The families receive very little, if any, compensation for sheltering the children. Rwanda has approximately 600,000 orphans due to the genocide and HIV which is rampant due to the use of rape as a weapon of war.
We traveled steep, rutted, red dirt roads lined with wild flowers. Flowers grow everywhere. Perhaps they are God's way of redeeming the blood-soaked ground. Geraniums & Verbena seem to be common, along with Clematis, Vinca, Poinsettia, and other garden store varieties we see back home. The first orphanage was next door to a genocide memorial. This very rural cemetery/memorial consisted of a single mass grave containing 1,000 bodies. It was covered by a concrete top, and wilting bouquets were scattered around it. The school building was constructed of the common packed mud ball material with several shuttered windows and a sky light. There was no electricity. About twenty young primary-aged children sat crammed like sardines behind two rows of rough-hewn wooden benches with writing tables. They desperately need more benches, but there isn't enough money to have the local craftsman build them. They had little notebooks which had each been carefully torn in half to make twice as many. They were so well behaved, but obviously excited to see us. We received a greeting in English along with a little conversation and a song about Jesus. Then it was time give our gifts. We took them outside and tossed little soccer balls to them and passed out jump ropes. The soccer balls were an immediate success, but the kids were unsure about what to do with jump ropes. After a few demonstrations by adults and lots of coaxing, the kids caught on and were jumping away. We brought both short individual ropes and long ropes. It would be fun to come back in a year to see if they have developed the intricate jump rope dances we played as kids. After awhile we gave them boxes of crayons, more little notebooks, and some work books for math and writing. Saying good bye was hard. These kids are so sweet and eager to learn, but most of them will not be able to continue with school once they are past this charitable primary education provided by our host organization, ARDR.
We continued to the next school. This one was better off, having been built & supplied by UNICEF. They still had only the basics, so our gifts of soccer balls, jump ropes, crayons, and workbooks were appreciated. The third school was held in the bare sanctuary of a large church. As we walked in to the dim space, we passed a young boy laying on a grass mat on the cold concrete floor. He had vomited, and appeared very sick. No help was available for him. No school nurse to keep him comfortable, no call to mom to come pick him up. No doctor to give him medicine.
The rest of the class sat in a group in the center of the sanctuary. They didn't have desks. There was a blackboard at the front, and this is where their lessons were done. In another small building nearby was a second class. Dirt floors, no light, no desks, more of the same. Again, gifts of balls, jump ropes, crayons, workbooks. Each time, all the kids wanted to be touched, hugged, talked to, loved. And it was so hard to say goodbye.
After this last visit, the pastor of the church that housed the school wanted to pray with us. His prayer, as others I'd heard, started with thanks to God for "still surviving." Heartbreaking. He offered the most beautiful prayer of thanksgiving for us, for the gifts we brought, and for the love we had for Rwanda. It left me in tears, not happy tears, but deeply sad & embarrassed tears because we had done next to nothing. What are a few soccer balls & crayons when these kids have virtually nothing? The poorest children in America are rich compared to them. They do, however, have one thing that many American kids don't: faith in God who loves them, and the joy that faith brings even in the face of such suffering.
In the evening we visited another English class, this one taught by "Bob." Bob is from Uganda and was given his nick name by an American friend while he was living in Iran. I hope to find out more of that story. Bob was instantly likeable. Our class time was spent introducing ourselves and then it was time to go. Jean didn't want us to walk home in the dark.
Friday, Sept 24
Today was quiet. We spent time talking with Jean about our agenda and brainstormed ways to raise funds to help ARDR's work continue. So much need, but everything requires funding first. We stopped by an internet cafe, and then later in the afternoon returned to Bob's English class.
Saturday, Sept 25
Jean and his staff are very busy preparing for tomorrow's celebration of Laurent's return home with his bride, Nicole, and baby son, Grant. It will be a feast that will include a freshly slaughtered cow for the wedding party. We won't be visiting the field today.
Jean's wife, Janine, took us to the seamstress' shop to pick up our dresses. Sherrie's dress fit well & was beautiful, but mine was a bit snug in the shoulders. No problem - the seamstress took it apart and adjusted it on her peddle machine while we waited and visited. Everyone that came into the shop was a friend, and conversation was lively and full of laughter. Afterwards, we 4 women went to the beauty salon where Nicole had her hair done and the rest of us had manicures and pedicures. If any of you have seen the movie Steel Magnolias, you should have no problem imagining the atmosphere of the shop. It was very small and dimly lit, but lively. A TV/DVD player stood in one corner playing wonderful Christian reggae. There were three stations with women having their hair done by the stylist who moved from chair to chair while her assistants supplemented. While Sherrie & I had manicures the power went out. The manicurists took it in stride producing flashlights to continue filing and polishing all the while bantering and laughing. My manicure & pedicure cost $2 American. The same at home would have cost $40.
Sunday Sept 26
Today was our first African worship service at the church Laurent attended when he lived here in Rwamagana. It was large a non-denominational evangelical church packed with about 1,000 people. Banners hung from high on the walls. There was a large stage area, and the choir was already singing when we arrived. It will be impossible to describe how amazing the music was. No sing-song, sappy, bustle & bonnet, sentimental "church lady" music there (the 19th century virtually ruined hymnody and should be banned). What we heard was lively, joyful, music with a reggae-like beat and tight, natural African harmony. The singers moved as they sang, usually in unison, and the effect left my eyes leaking for the beauty of it. They sang Amazing Grace and even it was somehow given new life. I enjoyed singing along in English from memory.
Sherrie, Nicole, and I were each invited to speak for a few minutes giving whatever little introduction of ourselves we wanted. It was far less intimidating than I thought it would be, but I'm still glad that part is over. ;-) There was time spent by the Bishop who oversees the cluster of local churches thanking Laurent for his years of service to the church before he moved away. Laurent preached a short sermon, there was more music, and the service was over. Not what I'm used to, but good - especially the music. A friend of Laurent, Elisa, was invited to sit with us to interpret, and as it turned out, he is an Anglican. He invited us to visit his church in Kigali which we intend to do, God willing. He thought Sherrie would be allowed to film the service. I hope so!
After church, we walked across the road to the ARDR compound where tents and chairs had been set up for the long delayed wedding celebration for Laurent & Nicole. Nicole looked absolutely gorgeous in a traditional African dress of patterned silk tied over one shoulder with a matching undergarment called a Umukenyero. Sherrie & I were surprised to be seated at the head table with the bride & groom. Music and speeches followed a delicious dinner. Traditional African dancers performed and Sherrie & I were honored (and embarrassed, I might add, speaking for myself) to be pulled up front to join the dance. We tried, but buzungu (pl. of muzungu), as everyone knows, can't dance. It's traditional in Rwanda, when one wants to honor someone, to give a cow as a gift. Laurent & his family received 3 cows from various family & friends. I wonder if customs will have a problem with them. ;-)
I fell asleep at 5PM and slept soundly until 2:30 AM - 9 hours of consecutive sleep for the first time in a week. I was awakened again by the barking of a feral dog and the Islamic call to prayer.
Thursday, September 24, 2009
There, but...
Yes, we arrived safely, but I have almost no internet access. Bummer. I'm journaling daily and may try to post a few things from an interent cafe, but pictures will have to wait.
It's utterly foreign, raw, beautiful, delicious, and hearbreaking. The people are so warm & friendly. The birds are amazing.
I've seen precisely one small spider - outside where it belonged - and not one mosquito.
I'm really disappointed that I won't be able to do much blogging, but when I get home I'll make up for it.
It's utterly foreign, raw, beautiful, delicious, and hearbreaking. The people are so warm & friendly. The birds are amazing.
I've seen precisely one small spider - outside where it belonged - and not one mosquito.
I'm really disappointed that I won't be able to do much blogging, but when I get home I'll make up for it.
Sunday, September 20, 2009
For family & friends
Stay tuned... I hope to post pictures & narrative here, IF netbook & wifi cooperate, and IF I can upload pictures. We arrive in Rwanda on the evening of Tuesday, Sept. 22, 2009. I'm sure I'll be exhausted after a 25 hour trip, but maybe by Wednesday I can begin updating.
I have no idea what to expect, and no clue as to what my reactions will be. I'm so very thankful for my dear husband who encouraged me to go. I wouldn't have dreamed of it apart from his urging. This isn't a book, but I dedicate my Rwanda trip to him. I love you, Clifford!
Muzungu means white person. It is, apparently, a common shout among local people. We're told it's not derogatory - just an exclamation.
Comments from home will be cherished while I'm away. Please keep me connected, :-)
I have no idea what to expect, and no clue as to what my reactions will be. I'm so very thankful for my dear husband who encouraged me to go. I wouldn't have dreamed of it apart from his urging. This isn't a book, but I dedicate my Rwanda trip to him. I love you, Clifford!
Muzungu means white person. It is, apparently, a common shout among local people. We're told it's not derogatory - just an exclamation.
Comments from home will be cherished while I'm away. Please keep me connected, :-)
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